Mom Used Me To Financially Drain My Dad To Give To Her Other Kids & She Wonders Why I Went LC.. AITA

I (30m) have three younger half-siblings through my mom. Because my mom had primary custody, I grew up with them, and I was miserable because my mom has the "siblings always share" mentality and I would be punished if I didn't want to. This was mainly an issue because only two of us have the same father, and whenever each of dad's gave us something and the others wanted it, we would be expected to share. And because my dad was the most active in being a parent and had more money, my siblings always went after my stuff, sometimes without even asking, and I could never do anything about it without getting punished.

There were times I didn't even get to play or use the things that my dad gave me because "it wasn't my turn", and if my siblings broke or damaged it, my mom would shrug it off because "things happen", and to just tell my dad to buy me a new one.

This made me so angry, because not only did I feel like I could never have anything nice for myself, but my dad couldn't always afford to get me a replacement. He had more money than the other dads but he wasn't rich.

I remember being my happiest when I was with my dad and wanted to stay, but because he lived in another state and had a crazy work schedule I could only be with him in the summers.

Not only that, but I was made to feel bad if I ever voiced my displeasure living with my mom. because "she was a single mom trying her best", and I was always provided for and never physically harmed so I should just be grateful.

Story 1:
AITA For Telling My Mother She Is The Reason Why I Don't Want A Relationship With My Siblings?
Story 2:
AITA for telling my mom I won't be at her wedding?
Story 3:
AITA for getting upset and asking my mom to pick me up?
Story 4:
AITA for kicking my step son out to his mother's

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